Neurodivergent Counselling & Online EMDR Therapy

For adults who are tired of having to explain themselves

If you are autistic, ADHD, dyslexic, dyspraxic, or identify as neurodivergent in any way, you may have spent a significant part of your life adapting yourself to fit environments that weren't designed with you in mind. Masking, translating, managing — often exhausting yourself in the process.

Therapy should be different. It should be a space where you don't have to perform neurotypicality, explain your experience from the ground up, or worry that the way your mind works will be misunderstood, pathologised, or subtly corrected.

That is what I aim to offer.

Working with a neurodivergent therapist — why it matters

I am neurodivergent myself. This isn't something I mention as a footnote — it is central to how I work and why I work the way I do.

Working with a neurodivergent therapist means something different to working with a neurotypical therapist who has read about neurodivergence. It means:

Implicit understanding — not just intellectual knowledge

There are things you won't need to explain. The exhaustion of social performance. The sensory overwhelm that others dismiss. The way your mind moves — associatively, laterally, intensely — and what it feels like when that is misunderstood or suppressed. The grief that can follow a late diagnosis. The complicated relief of finally having language for something you've lived your whole life.

I understand these things not only clinically but from the inside. That implicit understanding changes the texture of the therapeutic relationship in ways that are difficult to put into words — but that many neurodivergent clients describe as immediately and distinctly different.

No need to mask

Masking — the conscious or unconscious suppression of neurodivergent traits to appear more neurotypical — is exhausting and, over time, profoundly damaging to a sense of self. In our sessions, there is no need to mask. You can think aloud, change direction, take time to find words, move if you need to, be direct, be intense, go quiet, or communicate in whatever way feels natural to you.

This isn't a concession — it is simply how I work.

A neurodiversity-affirming model

I practise within a neurodiversity-affirming framework. This means I do not approach neurodivergence as a deficit to be corrected or a disorder to be managed. Neurodivergence is a different — not lesser — way of experiencing and interacting with the world. My role is not to help you become more neurotypical. It is to help you understand yourself more fully, process what has been difficult, and build a life that fits who you actually are.

Adaptations understood and already in place

Many neurodivergent people arrive in therapy having previously experienced environments that required them to advocate for their own needs — often exhaustingly and without success. In our work together, adaptations are not something you need to request or justify. They are already part of how I practice:

Flexible and direct communication style
No expectation of eye contact or conventional body language
Comfort with silence, tangents, and non-linear thinking
Clarity about structure, process, and what to expect
Sessions that honour your sensory and processing needs
Space for special interests, pattern recognition, and lateral thinking — which are often assets in therapeutic work

Lived experience and clinical expertise — combined

Good neurodivergent-affirming therapy requires both. Clinical training and experience provide the framework, the skills, and the ethical grounding. Lived experience provides something that cannot be taught — genuine, embodied understanding of what it is to be neurodivergent in a world not built for you.

I bring both.

Neurodivergent diagnosis — navigating identity, trauma, and integration

Receiving a neurodivergent diagnosis — whether formal or self-identified — can be a profound and complicated experience. For many adults diagnosed later in life, it brings simultaneous relief and grief: relief at finally having an explanation, and grief for the years spent struggling without one.

The diagnosis doesn't tell you what to do with the information. It doesn't explain the impact of decades of masking,

misunderstanding, and feeling like an outsider. It doesn't address the trauma that often accumulates alongside neurodivergence — the bullying, the repeated failures in systems not designed for your mind, the relationships that didn't work, the jobs that collapsed, the persistent sense of being fundamentally wrong in some way.

This is where therapy can make a genuine difference — not by fixing your neurodivergence, but by helping you understand it, integrate it, and process what it has cost you.

The rules of travel have altered so much in the last few years, with strict regulation regarding air travel, questionable car searches that may vary in regulation from state to state, and the feeling of never really being ultimately.

Online EMDR Therapy for Neurodivergent Adults

EMDR can be a particularly powerful therapeutic modality for neurodivergent adults — and I believe it is most effective when delivered by a practitioner who understands neurodivergence from the inside.

Why EMDR and neurodivergence are a natural fit

Neurodivergent people are significantly more likely to have experienced trauma — through adverse childhood experiences, educational difficulties, social exclusion, bullying, repeated misattunement, and the cumulative effect of living in environments that required constant adaptation. EMDR is specifically designed to process exactly this kind of layered, relational, and complex trauma.

EMDR also works differently to talking therapy — and for many neurodivergent people, this is precisely its appeal. It does not require you to find the right words for your experience. It does not depend on a linear narrative. It works with images, sensations, emotions, and fragments — which often maps more naturally onto neurodivergent processing styles than traditional conversation-based approaches.

Adaptations to EMDR for neurodivergent clients

Standard EMDR protocols were developed primarily with neurotypical clients in mind. Effective EMDR for neurodivergent adults requires thoughtful adaptation — and an understanding of how neurodivergence affects the processing of trauma, the experience of bilateral stimulation, and the therapeutic relationship itself.

In my practice, adaptations include:

Extended preparation phases — building internal resources and safety with additional care and time, recognising that neurodivergent nervous systems may require more thorough resourcing before processing work begins

Flexible bilateral stimulation — working collaboratively to find the form of bilateral stimulation that works best for you, whether visual, tactile, or auditory, and adjusting intensity and pace throughout

Explicit psychoeducation — clear, detailed explanation of every stage of the process, because understanding what is happening and why is important for many neurodivergent clients

Non-linear processing — recognising that neurodivergent processing may not follow the expected sequence and adapting accordingly, without pathologising divergence from the standard model

Sensory awareness — awareness of sensory sensitivities that may affect the experience of bilateral stimulation or the online therapeutic environment, and adjusting accordingly

Alexithymia — working without a clear emotional vocabulary

Many neurodivergent adults experience alexithymia — difficulty identifying, describing, or distinguishing between emotions. Standard EMDR relies heavily on accessing and articulating emotional states. In my work with neurodivergent clients, I adapt the approach to work with physical sensations, images, and somatic experience rather than requiring clear emotional labelling — meeting you where you are rather than where the protocol assumes you will be.

Synaesthesia and sensory processing differences

For clients who experience synaesthesia — where one sense automatically triggers another — or significant sensory processing differences, the experience of bilateral stimulation may be qualitatively different and require careful, collaborative exploration. I approach this with curiosity rather than assumption, working with whatever arises rather than expecting a standardised response.

A non-pathologising frame throughout

Perhaps most importantly, the EMDR work I do with neurodivergent clients is held within a consistently non-pathologising frame. The goal is never to change how your mind works. It is to help you process what has been painful, release what has been stuck, and move forward with a clearer, more integrated sense of who you are — neurodivergence and all.

Who this work is for

This page may resonate with you if:

You are autistic, ADHD, dyslexic, dyspraxic, or otherwise neurodivergent — formally diagnosed or self-identified

You have had previous therapy that felt like it missed something important, or required you to adapt yourself too much

You are processing a late neurodivergent diagnosis and trying to make sense of what it means

You carry trauma that you believe is connected to your neurodivergence — from childhood, education, relationships, or work

You want EMDR therapy with someone who genuinely understands how neurodivergent processing works

You want a space where you can simply be yourself

Getting started

The first step is a free 15-minute consultation — a relaxed conversation to discuss what's bringing you to therapy, ask any questions about how I work, and get a sense of whether we might work well together. There is no commitment required and no need to have everything figured out before you get in touch.

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